Hola, I’m Haneen. I’m a sex & intimacy coach.

Would you believe, I used to be a lawyer?! 😱🤭 There I was cracking inappropriate sex stories at the office. 👩🏻‍💼💼 I was in a monogamous relationship, with a happy regimented life in London…… Until I had a devastating breakup. 💔

After that - I couldn’t shake the feeling of being trapped. I was kinda done with doing “what was expected of me”.

Whether it was faking pleasure during sex, picking monogamy because that was the default, being hyper attuned to others, or picking a career that was highly approved of. I WAS SUCH A GOOD GIRL (and not the naughty fun kind).

Until. That pattern became boring to me. I began challenging relationship paradigms and “sexperimenting” to find my true self-expression. I organised play parties, tried polyamory, indulged in so much casual sex... It was LIBERATING.

I noticed my super power was my ability to talk about sex with ease & lightness. So many candid conversations with sexual partners. So many layers of shame gradually shedding away.

Fast forward 7 years, I am now a relationship anarchist. I am committed to 100% authenticity and play. I am committed to honouring my body.

And I have to thank sex for that. 🙏🏼 Sex helped me get in touch with my deepest desires, my no, my pleasure, my ability to take up space, my ability to communicate my needs.

It was a powerful catalyst. At the same time, I experienced a shift in my social and work life. Because how I show up in the bedroom, is how I show up in life. So I’ve made it my life mission to empower people to do the very same.

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Testimonials on my Facilitation

Because of all the discomfort I felt around sexuality - one of the things I really valued was Haneen’s lighthearted, silly and playful approach. It woke me up to realise that sex is supposed to be fun! Not all “heavy briefcases” and serious suits! I felt myself being uplifted by all of the joy - and all that heaviness slowly dissolve!

Michael, London
You can tell how passionate Haneen is about her work by how she facilitates live classes, makes space for difficult emotions, and openly shares her own inner challenges with the group…. It reminds me, we are all human, we are all learning!

Inga, Mexico
Haneen’s delivery of her courses are simply gold - she never fails to make spaces a super fun (and supported) ride to be on!

Thea, UK
I particularly liked the care Haneen took to acknowledge when people may not be comfortable in workshops and offered opportunities for people to advocate for their needs while also making space in the course for cheeky and playful exploration.

Lisa, UK

My content is about sex, but (shhhh!) it’s not about sex. 💁‍♀️ This is about how to be shamelessly you.

So I’m gonna role model that sh*t. 😂 I I am shameless. I over-share everything. I am “TMI”.

Ok, so maybe sharing scandalous sex stories at Friday work socials, wasn’t the most sensible thing I’ve ever done. 💁🏻‍♀️

But hopefully it’s my ease of speaking about sex that rubs off on you, not my inappropriateness. 🐒 My wish is for “sex speak” to be as normal as talking about dinner options. Like, “Babe, shall we do anal or a bossy massage tonight?”🍽️

Come to one of my workshops & experience what I mean. You’ll be surprised how normal it will feel.

My influences

Schools I love:

🤓 Non Violent Communication
🤓 Internal Family Systems Therapy
🤓 Somatic Coaching
🤓 Authentic Relating & Circling
🤓 Wheel of Consent
🤓 Existential Kink
🤓 Contact improv & Primal Play
🤓 Improv Theatre

Books I recommend:

📚 Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas
📚 Come As You Are by Emil Nagoski
📚 Enjoy Sex (How, When and If You Want To) by Meg John Barker
📚 The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin
📚 A Woman’s Guide to Power by Kasia Urbanik
📚 Sex Talks by Vanessa Marin
📚 The Art of Receiving and Giving by Betty Martin