Say what you actually want in sex, love, dating.

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Do you know what you want?
But find it hard to ask for? 🫠

I help self-aware, "therapied" high-achievers voice their desires in sex, love & dating — without fear of rejection.

Many of us approach relating with a desire to be seen as ENOUGH (interesting enough, desirable enough, safe enough etc) which keeps us in subtle performance patterns.

And I believe that real intimacy only happens when you're willing to risk the truth…..again and again.

No pitch ambush. Just … do we click?

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IFS & NVC trained

Kink, Queer, and ENM friendly

7+ years experience, 200+ workshops, 500+ clients

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    1:1 Coaching

    For a deeply personalised journey, for singles or couples

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    Sex Course

    Become unapologetic in bed from the comfort of your own home!

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    Workshops

    Attend one of the many live offerings in London or online

A free video guide

How to talk to your partner about sex

Hi deeeears, I’m Haneen. 👋🏼

My story from Lawyer 👩🏻‍💼 to Intimacy Coach is a real head-turner at dinners. 🤭

“Wait, WHAT? You were a lawyer?!”. YUP, what can I say. I weirdly enjoyed running around in barefooted tights (👠=🙅‍♀️), in my chocolate stained suit…. smiling at high net-worth clients by day 👩‍⚖️ attending sex positive events by night. ⛓️😏

So it was no surprise when I ditched the cushy corporate world (bye-byeeeee 👋🏼) and began to run sensual supper clubs in a mansion 😂 It was the beginning of teaching myself that I could advocate for my desires. At least in my career.

But it felt harder in relationships. I thought I had to be endlessly polished, endlessly self-aware, endlessly “good” at relationships. And now? I realised the goal was never to become less human, less needy, less messy— but to become more intimate with what was already here. ♥️🥰

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